Beliefs about humility range from fiction to facts.
1. A humble leader is an oxymoron.
2. If you are humble the competition will chew you up.
3. “Eating humble pie” is an accurate description of humility.
4. To be humble is to diminish one’s ability and not accept credit
The following quotes cast humility in its true light.
“It is unwise to be too sure of one’s own wisdom. It is healthy to be reminded that the strongest might weaken and the wisest may err.” -Mahatma Gandhi
“If you consider the careers of the people on Wall Street, the ones who were humble lasted and prospered; the ones who were self-centered and thought they had the whole answer often made mistakes. More than half of the mistakes made on Wall Street are because someone thought they knew it all. They didn’t have humility.” Sir John Templeton.
“How can you be humble if you are always paying attention to yourself? True humility excludes self-consciousness, but false humility intensifies our awareness of ourselves to such a point that we are crippled, and can no longer make any movement or perform any action without putting to work a whole complex mechanism of apologies and formulas of self-accusation.” Thomas Merton.
In the next blog I will explore how humility comes from a place of self-awareness and gratitude.