A Letter From Your Ego

Imagine your ego wrote you the following letter.

Dear (Insert your name)

I want you to know that I am still very present and powerful in your life. Remember that with me “Resistance is futile. You will be assimilated!” How do I know? Well when you read this you will recognize me in all my many forms.

Let me tell you I will resist you with all my power and ingenuity when you,

  1. Imply that I am merely a story or illusion of the mind. Not so since I am part of the very fabric of your being. I am you and there is no other option for your life other than to live by my agenda.
  2. Try to tell yourself that busyness is not good. I’m telling you if you rest you rust. Being does not precede doing. It is the other way round.
  3. Indicate that I am the troublemaker responsible for your suffering. Your suffering comes from not meeting my needs. I need to look good, stand out, and be better than others. When you don’t strive for the latter it causes you no end of pain. So get over your renunciation kick and enjoy living with me a the front and center of your life.
  4. Attempt to deconstruct me with bogus philosophies that lead you into the mystery of your being. I have everything figured out. I can define exactly who and what you are. Stop that nonsense that you are more fundamental than you say you are.
  5. Stop trying to improve me. I am all about self-help and improvement. I have a seminar and program for everything.
  6. Challenge my dualistic view of life. There is a them/us distinction. Don’t try to tell me that I am connected to all other humans. Don’t you know how special I am? I stand out from the crowd.
  7. Imply that materialism (richer makes you better), competition (Smarter is what I am), pride (Be all that you can be), and self-assertion (Notice me) are paths to be avoided rather than embraced with gusto. You will just be a nothing if you don’t follow me.
  8. Pursue practices like mindfulness, meditation, and prayer that take you away from a future or past focus.  Or worse still. You will try to live in the present. That’s just not where it is at!

Finally, stop trying to ignore or eradicate me. Buddah fought Mara. Jesus fought the devil in the wilderness. Look where that got them, poverty and worse, crucifixion.

Your Response

What would you write to your ego in response?

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I am a licensed psychologist and management consultant and have always been intrigued by how leaders can inspire people in their organizations. The bottom line is that people are not always motivated by material rewards, the use of the carrot or the stick, fear and intimidation,and command and control, Five human needs inspire and drive us. Kristine S MacKain, Ph.D and myself describe these inspirational forces in our book "What Inspirational Leaders Do" (Kindle 2008)
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3 Responses to A Letter From Your Ego

  1. Karen says:

    Dear Ego-
    I am and so are you
    Stay with me and we’ll be friends
    The relationship in part depends
    on how good you are to my heart and soul.

  2. Rita says:

    Dear Ego,

    There is a place for you in my life, just not front and center. I love how you strengthen my reserve when I need to stand up for myself, and after our long discussions, many times my self-esteem goes up a notch. You ARE a special part of me, but the key word is part. I cannot live without you and living with you keeps me on my toes. For that, I thank you.

    Sincerely yours.

  3. cedricj says:

    A selection of comments from a Facebook page

    To the Ego:

    ” Get over yourself already. I have….”
    Carolyn P.

    “The ego is always trying to help. Want to get rid of it, and it will offer to help. Want to improve it, it’s there for you. A seven-step, multi-year project to wake up from ego’s trance, it would like nothing better. Jerry S.

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